5 Lifestyle Activities That Attract Women To You
(Disclaimer: The true initial focus and goal is to become good at the skill. Women can sense if a guy is doing something because he’s genuinely interested… or doing it simply to “get laid”. Have some genuine interest in the choices that you make, or you’ll end up back to square one, and labeled as creepy, weird loser trying to get girls!)
Fact of Life: When you get really good at something… many doors and possibilities in life open up. That leads to all kinds of exciting options in life.
Add Value and Lots of Fun To Your Own Life… And Then Her’s.
Most men try to chase women around blindly, but sadly, quality women want a man who’s got a quality lifestyle, and “not needing her around” in his life, but would be a nice bonus to have her company. Ask any girl. Women want a challenge, not a pushover or needy guy who reeks of desperation to get laid.
Here Are 5 Lifestyle Activities… Pick Your Challenge!
#1. Ice Skating
Why Ice Skating?
Spinning on ice? Perform jumps and stunts? Very impressive!
Socially: Great way to break the ice (pun intended), and girls enjoy a good lead and teacher. Imagine inviting a girl out…to teach her some basic ice skating techniques… simply pure fun!
Learning control over breathing, body, spiritual mind and soul.
Socially: It’s all about building trust… and that’s one of the key foundations of a good relationship.
#3. Salsa Dancing… (or Bachata/ Kizomba/ Lambada Zouk/ Lindy Hop/ Argentine Tango/ West Coast Swing, etc)
Why Salsa Dancing?
Teaches you to lead women firmly, yet gently.
Socially: Women want to be swept off their feet. You can become that guy who does that. Travel to world-wide dance festivals and make some crazy friends and global connections!
#4. Pole Acrobatics / Gymnastics
Why Pole Acrobatics?
Teaches you muscle control in areas you never thought were possible.
Socially: Most women will be very impressed by a man who is unafraid to embrace the pole (stereotypically a woman’s domain) and is super athletic on it! Do it because it’s challenging, and a lot more fun than going to the gym!
Master the “seas”.
Socially: Fun, Sun, Bikini Babes? All that beach stuff the cool kids do? Nuff said.
Pick one and start!
Be obsessed with it for the next 90 days – read up, research, go deep.
Scratching the surface and just having a “try” for a week won’t cut it.
Watch youtube videos of others in that specific area, google for websites that offer detailed info, read, learn and absorb everything.
Most importantly, find a good mentor online or offline. It’s a huge shortcut to learn from other’s experience and mistakes.
Use Google and Youtube for references and search!
You need to invest in yourself first. It’s really not about the women, at the start.
It’s your own lifestyle that needs a face-lift, before women start to see you as an attractive potential mate to hang out with.
Have fun while you learn, and meet more quality people to network with when you start, and as you continue to master the skill!
Talk to the instructors, find out how they got to where they are. Ask the right questions and see if they are where YOU want to be!
If you pick any of the above lifestyle choices… you will meet new women 100% of the time.
Staying home or hanging out with the same friends hasn’t exactly worked to widen your network nor social circles the way you want in terms of meeting women, has it?
MAN UP, STEP OUT, AND STEP UP… and quality women will just enter your life as a result.
Invest in yourself today what your future self will love you for.